Thank you for making clear.

Talking about fluidity, going by sparse information We have, i thought fluidity being in a few individuals. I believe it had been certainly one of conclusions to an APA research of sexuality that We may have read down Wikipedia (there goes my cred).

You mean people experiencing new-found attraction to people they hadn’t found attractive or that their sexual identities went up and down the sexuality spectrum when you speak of fluidity do? I usually pictured it as being a bi person experiencing brand brand new admiration for the next number of individuals.

Very first time commenter here, therefore thank you for maybe perhaps not using us to task. ??

Demented

@grero: i understand that which you suggest. I am talking about, there were entire communities where bisexuality had been the norm and were held for some of the populace why is it a surprise that the race that is humann’t changed all that much ever since then? How come we pretend that folks generally speaking are not and not have been with the capacity of intimate fluidity and/or bisexuality (instance: dozens of people asking “was shakespeare homosexual” alternatively of “was Shakespeare bisexual”)?

@Captain Obvious: “Everyone just isn’t bisexual, stop pressing this idea that is moronic. ”

———- They aren’t stating that at all. These are generally wanting to convince by themselves, and us, that straight guys are intimately fluid, but still “straight”. This short article definitely ended up beingn’t about homosexual guys secretly fapping to lesbian porn while still being gay, given that it does not play in to the fantasy/fetish some have around here.

Demented

@RyanD: More the latter, IMHO, must be attraction that is newfound a sex you hadn’t discovered attractive prior to could be according to feelings and emotions, with intimate attraction following after.

In order that’s more difficult and less sexually-based than simply “I happened to be mostly interested in A a several years right back, now I’m mostly attracted to Z. ”

RyanD

Oh, we see. Humans are such terribly fascinating creatures, aren’t they?

RyanD

Me asking, what do you identify as if you don’t mind? If it is personal, no issue after all.

@yynotnnh: talk on your own.

Virge

We went along to Catholic Boys Academy for 12 years so we all took Latin together with past reputation for the Roman Empire. From that true point I’ve never ever stopped reading about any of it. You’re likely right in regards to the first 20 emperors. Claudius didn’t have male fans and I don’t think Marcus Aurelius did either. I understand whenever Augustus became emperor at 19 and had three catamites (2 slaves and something freeborn) who all became freemen plus some of their most trusted buddies and administrators regarding the kingdom. Additionally the story of Hadrian and Antinous requirements to be manufactured right into a romance movie that is gay

Many Many Thanks. MMDD’s remark had been simply occurred to end up being the first in line for the responses that are typical have from homosexual males whenever I explain my intimate identification. We don’t remember a right male or female ever saying one thing therefore absurd as, ““……. Bisexuality is difficult for folks to understand…” blah blah blah. Simply inform the facts, and that knows – you could actually teach some social individuals. ” Gay guys pop that mindset about 50% of times.

I did so inform the facts in hopes of educating people who have my comment that is original but seemingly have been squandered on him.

Nevertheless the kicker were the snarky sarcastic words, ““Labels are way too restricting…”I don’t like labels…” “Labels are bad…” “Labels are outdated…” we had to laugh about that… up to the seventeenth century the just FOUR LABELS when it comes to elements were planet, wind, fire and water… penguins and seals were labeled seafood and fuck/marry/kill bats had been labeled wild wild birds.

The causes we simplify things and say I’m homosexual number 1. To prevent conversations that are tedious explanations no. 2. Away from total respect for my guy and our relationship. I’m maybe perhaps not planning to have easy minded acquaintances making enjoyable of him to be with a man… that is bisexual individuals like MMDD are often fast to achieve that.