In fins and a mask you look very sexy!

One of the key factors influencing the outcome of a beach date is your perception of the situation. If you perceive acquaintance as some kind of aptitude test, then excitement is inevitable. And it, in turn, will lead to confusion in words, stuttering and ignorance of what else to say. Girls are interested in self-confident, strong men. And the strength here is measured not by the pumping up of the muscles, but by the inner feeling. Therefore, treat meeting a girl on the beach with ease, as if it were entertainment on a sunny day. It should be like playing cards for you. Won – well, lost – also nothing, at least had fun. Girls are also living beings and are no less interested in getting to know each other than you are. And even more.

Just imagine where her self-esteem would drop if her towel neighbor was approached by a dozen interested guys, but not a single one? Therefore, starting an acquaintance, you are pursuing a noble goal – saving her self-esteem, and not just looking for entertainment for the day, evening, and maybe all night. But do not rule out the possibility of failure. Some girls still go to the beach just to swim and sunbathe. If the first attempt was not successful, then don’t be upset, but go on an adventure and meet new girls! The beach is big!

If you haven’t graduated from the circus variety school in the clowning class and don’t want onlookers on neighboring sunbeds to bet how soon this beauty with a stunning figure will kick you off, then don’t go around the girl you like. And secondly, during this walking around a woman, what can you think of! Allegedly setting yourself up for an acquaintance, you simply nurture your excitement. Do you need it? No, not at all. Therefore, as soon as you see a suitable object – legs in arms and forward, until a more nimble fellow has outstripped you.

1. Starting a casual conversation with a woman is the easiest and most straightforward way to meet on the beach. In this case, it is necessary to capture the attention of the girl from the first phrase. It is good if it is a playful, original and positive saying. Try to avoid platitudes like: “How is the water? Warm? There is a girl in front of you, not a thermometer. Over time, you will have your own list of the first phrases and you will learn to improvise. But if nothing comes to mind at all, then below I will share a dozen statements that will help start a conversation:

If you are not one of them, then let’s remember our childhood and build the castle of our dreams

Girl, for some reason it seems to me that you are bored now. Let’s collect seashells together. I never understood why girls are so negative about sandcastles. Let’s bet that no one has ever met you in the pool? Hey, where are you so beautifully tanned? Please look after my things while I bathe. Your butt is red! Why are you smiling. Girl, I see, you swim so cool, could you watch me, otherwise I don’t know how to swim at all. Thank you for ice cream and coffee. I am writing a book on how to pick up girls on the beach and would like to ask you a few questions. Young woman! Be so kind as not to walk around swaying your hips past that old man over there. He’s already had two heart attacks! Walk better past me, I have a strong heart.