Just my 2¢ but asking a provider “WTF” isn’t going to endear you to her. YMMV. Remember respect is a 2 way street.

Regarding ‘juicy details’. There’s a select number of Sr’s on my board that I take them at their word completely and they accept mine. If it’s good we say so, if not good we say that too, and only that. Specifics are handled by pm’s and email and not published openly. No sense in titillatating the lurkers who never contribute and local leo with details.

[QUOTE=Gansett]Just my 2¢ but asking a provider “WTF” isn’t going to endear you to her. YMMV. Remember respect is a 2 way street.

Regarding ‘juicy details’. There’s a select number of Sr’s on my board that I take them at their word completely and they accept mine. If it’s good we say so, if not good we say that too, and only that. Specifics are handled by pm’s and email and not published openly. No sense in titillatating the lurkers who never contribute and local leo with details.

That’s laughable

[QUOTE=Gansett]Regarding ‘juicy details’. There’s a select number of Sr’s on my board that I take them at their word completely and they accept mine. If it’s good we say so, if not good we say that too, and only that. Specifics are handled by pm’s and email and not published openly. No sense in titillatating the lurkers who never contribute and local leo with details.

The debate over “juicy details” will ALWAYS continue. The way you guys handle it is very good. Problem down here is that there are so many egos and bullshit that your approach wouldn’t work here. There’s too much of a sense of entitlement that some members get. based only on their number of posts. Men with little boy mentalities.

The other problem is that some think that if we don’t disclose details here. well. we’ve shut down the process! Stopped LEO in their tracks. I’ve always been of the mindset that there is no reason details can’t be posted. The PM thing, between mature people, can be a good thing but in Orlando it’s just an ego driven boys club. And they act like boys. LOL.

[QUOTE=Goddess]I’m not sure exactly how I got put into a category of “playing games”. You must feel that your word games would intimidate me or perhaps you thought im not intelligent enough to notice your connotations. So I pose the question, exactly who is playing games?

I’m a damm yankee btw :)[/QUOTE]No intrusion at all, though you make way too much sense for some of the folks here — you damn yankees

And gay Chat Hour why exactly are you cussing at me?[/QUOTE]It seems like a game to me. You withhold information from some and share it with others based upon whether or not you deem them worthy of putting in their dues here. It seems like high school nonsense to me. It’s the same kind of popularity game that children play.

People come here for information. Sadly, some folks get off on making others jump through hoops to get the information they have. Personally, I don’t care to play that game. If I have something to share, I share it with the whole board. None of this crap like “trusted seniors PM me for details.”

I have absolutely no desire to intimidate you. I don’t know you and don’t expect ever to meet you. I don’t receive any benefit from trying to intimidate anyone. All I truly desire is that folks just stop with the bullshit games. There are some folks here who want to control the flow of information, who tell others that they’re saying too much, etc. For some it’s paranoid delusion, but for others, it’s just to make them feel smug or superior. I pity the former and abhor the latter.